Husband: Thank you, babe. Do you know how much I appreciate everything you do?
Me: I know you appreciate what I do, to the extent that you know about it.
Husband: No. I appreciate the stuff I don't know about just as much as, or maybe even more than, the stuff I do know about. Because the fact that I don't know about it proves that you've got it under control. You've handled it so well that not only do I not have to worry about it, but I don't even have to think about it. You're amazing.
And that, dear friends, is one of many reasons I love that man.